I just got back from the best wedding I’ve ever been to, by a long shot. It wasn’t about the ceremony, or the decorations, it was just a celebration of friends. We camped out (there was a motel nearby if you were soft) and spent all day on moon bounces and waterslides, playing kickball or tie-dyeing, kayaking and bouncing on trampolines. Evenings were filled with dancing and drinking and bonfires and smores and bellydancing and fiddles and fireworks. Guests split up the responsibilities of wedding cupcake decorating, videotaping, dishwashing, and all the other details. In the end, it was three days of fun celebrating two amazing people. I want people at my wedding in swimsuits, too.